Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Uplift: Throwing in the towel




There’s nothing more irritating than feeling vulnerable. It’s at this point where throwing in the towel seems like the most logical thing to do, especially after so many attempts.  Below are few tips to keep going.

Giving up 

There are days getting up is easier than dealing with the enormous pain of not knowing what to do next. There are days where smiling seem like an excruciating effort. And there are days where you want to again, throw in the towel. Giving up is not an answer. Feeling like you want to give up is only a temporary solution. Though we are face with many trials in our lives, at times, feeling the burden to carry it all seems unreal; better yet unfair.  

DO NOT give up and FIND a solution 

Sometimes the curve-ball life will throw at you is enough to make you think twice. Therefore, look for strength through other places. Attempt to join a group if you must. Speak to yourself – it sounds crazy, but speaking to myself when I am in my quiet moment, is a form of self-meditation. Look for a solution. Of course, it is easier said than done. For those who are unable to help themselves, it’s okay. Look for strength to allow yourself to be helped by those who love you.  

Keep a focus mind. Again, meditate if needed. Cry if you need to or must. Read an article (like this one), or a book to help you sort through your struggle. With each action, change will take form.  

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Phil 4:13

There are seasons in our lives where we feel fulfill in our home, jobs, relationships, etc. Life is not easy – it has its lows and highs. It’s a constant test. However, it’s a test that you will pass. Through strength you will persevere. Moving forward is the only thing that seems real or fair. Regardless, change will take form.  
  
I would love to hear from you. You are welcome to email me, or comment below.

What are some of the ways you deal with a struggle? What advice do you have? What are some of the lessons you learn to help you to not throw in the towel?

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